The Prophet (P.B.U.H): A Model Of Kindness To Children
Qur’an on Mercy and Kindness
“So by mercy from Allah, [O Muhammad], you were lenient with them. And if you had been rude [in speech] or harsh in heart, they would have disbanded from about you…”
(Surah Aal-e-Imran 3:159)
Explanation:
Allah praises the Prophet (P.B.U.H.) for his gentle nature.
His mercy was not limited to adults; children felt safe, loved, and valued around him.
This mercy shaped the next generation of believers.
Hadith on Kindness to Children
Anas ibn Malik (R.A) reported:
“I never saw anyone who was more compassionate towards children than the Messenger of Allah (P.B.U.H.). His own son, Ibrahim, was in the care of a wet nurse in the hills around Madinah. He would go there, and we would go with him. He would enter the house, pick him up, kiss him, and smell him.”
(Sahih Muslim 2316)
Meaning:
The Prophet (P.B.U.H.) showed affection openly — hugging, kissing, and playing with children.
At a time when showing such love was rare, he normalized it as part of faith.
Lessons from the Prophet’s Kindness
Love Builds Confidence
Children who feel loved grow into stronger, healthier adults.
Gentleness Teaches Values
The Prophet (P.B.U.H.) taught through kindness, not harshness.
Every Child Deserves Mercy
His mercy extended to orphans, companions’ children, and even those who weren’t Muslim.
Psychological Connection
Modern psychology proves children thrive with affection and positive reinforcement.
Love reduces fear, increases learning, and creates emotional stability.
The Sunnah of the Prophet (P.B.U.H.) is a timeless model of healthy parenting and teaching.
Real-Life Reflection
Parenting: Hug and play with your children — it’s Sunnah.
Teachers: Kindness encourages better learning than harsh discipline.
Community: Respecting and valuing children builds a compassionate society.
Takeaway for Life
The Prophet (P.B.U.H.) showed us that the way we treat children reflects our faith and our character.
